Should I Choose
Legal Separation or Divorce?
The breakdown of a relationship is very difficult to process, especially when it comes to the legal aspects of a potential separation or divorce. Sometimes couples come to a crossroad and can’t decide what the right decision is regarding the status of their relationship. In order to make this decision, it is important to first understand the crucial difference between legal separation and divorce. While it may seem obvious, the main difference between the two is that when you are legally separated, you are still married to your spouse and do not sever your relationship or financial ties to each other.
Otherwise, legal separation and divorce, and their processes, are essentially identical. All issues that are covered in legal separation are also covered in divorce. Such issues include spousal support, asset and property division, child custody, child support, etc. Keep in mind that if you do initially decide to move forward with a separation and later choose to divorce, you will have to go through the process all over again in order to request a dissolution of your marriage.
The most prevailing reasons why some people choose to be legally separated over being divorced include:
1. One spouse needs to remain on the others health insurance per terms of eligibility;
2. You believe there is a chance of reconciliation;
3. You haven’t lived in the county long enough to file for divorce under their jurisdiction;
4. There is a federal tax benefit if you remain married; &
5. Religious or personal reasons prevent divorce.
While there are some benefits to legal separation, overall it is generally a better idea to choose divorce over separation merely in regards to the emotional toll that the legal process can take. As mentioned above, if you first file for separation and decide later to file for divorce, you will have to go through the same process all over again. This means more stress, more time and potentially renegotiating an agreement. The state of California requires a 6 month cooling-off period, meaning that a judge will not sign off on a divorce until 6 months after the initial divorce paperwork is filed. This allows the parties to truly consider their decision before making it final. It is also important to understand that divorce is beneficial over legal separation when you want to completely financial ties, or desire to remarry at some point.
At Warfield Law, we want to make the legal separation or divorce process as painless as possible for you and strive to make sure our clients are protected and satisfied with the decisions they make regarding the fate of their relationships